I blog for many reasons. Mostly my blog is where I can go and chat about my art and photography. Today is going to be a bit different..today I want to talk about family and its importance in my life. Life as I know it for the last week has been such an up and down roller coaster. For me my blog today is going to be a journal entry that I want to share with the world. Three very big things happened to people I that I consider very close as well as an acquaintance. Believe it or not the most traumatic for me involved the acquaintance. First one of my closest friends son

underwent open heart surgery for a condition that he was born with. This recent surgery should be the last until later in life. I have been so touched by this little guy and his mommas strength. It is just amazing to me. The power of prayer and strength has really been shown to me. Not that I ever doubted it..just has been revisited. It has also been that big reality check as I see him as well as visiting him at Children's Mercy how blessed I am to have healthy kiddos.
I really see myself as a person that does not take a lot for granted. I don't live extravagantly..in fact my cars were made in the 1990's. I try not to spend outrageously...I do like quality and I will pay for it. However, my husband and I do other things because we want our children to have great vacations every year. This is our kiddos on the hurricane deck at the US side of Niagara Falls.

We love to travel and we want our kiddos to experience this wonderful country that we live in.

One of the ways we do this is to live a little simple in some areas of our life. We make a point to do something different every year..go to another state that we have not been to..even if it means we drive through a state that we have been through. It has become some much more important to me over the last week.
At the same time that my dear friends son is recovering so wonderfully from his Fontan surgery another friend, Sweet Rachel, that I have come to know through Silver Bella, Facebook and blogging, is experiencing a life altering event with her father. While he was visiting her in Colorado he had a massive heart attack and is very lucky to be alive. In fact it is simply a miracle that he is here today!

Kara, Rachel, Sheila, Me!
Again, another reason to keep your family close to you..even if they drive you nuts. They are who you are...sometimes whether you like it or not. His surgery was Monday and the first 24 hours are very critical..I am hoping no news is good news right now. Lots of prayers are going her way.
Finally, the most heart wrenching, absolutely the single most moment that had me crying so hard that I could hardly catch my breath. I heard the eulogy of Allan Hagge from his wife. This is my acquaintance, this is the man that was involved in my son's life for a short time while he was in Boy Scouts. This is the father of the beautiful daughter that has been so gracious and helped with my sweet little Daisy Scouts. Last Tuesday July 28 while swimming at Myrtle Beach, SC he drowned....I still don't know the specific details, but I will say he died a hero. All of his children are safe. Yesterday was his funeral. All four of his children sat in the front row with his widow. He was just 44 years old and is just gone! In a matter of minutes just gone! It is so wrong...I suppose this was not the bliss you may have been looking for. I promise to get back to the regularly scheduled programming tomorrow. Please hug your kiddos, family, boyfriend, girlfriend, best friend, neighbor..whoever needs it. Life is too short even when we live to an acceptable age.